Jess Vestal has learned to ‘trust my instincts’ after divorce from Harry Jowsey

Jesus Vestal is ready to move on after her breakup Harry Jowsey – equipped with some life lessons she’s learned along the way.

Vestal and Jowsey split late last year after rekindling their relationship Perfect match season 2 romance off-screen, and now the reality star is weighing in on the reflection We weekly about the wisdom she has acquired since then.

“The biggest lesson I’ve learned about myself is to always trust my instincts and always go with my gut,” Vestal said Thursday, July 11, on the ESPYS 2024 red carpet at the Dolby Theater in Hollywood. “It never leads me wrong.”

In the wake of the breakup, Vestal – who also appeared in season 6 of Love is blind – said: “There is a lot that people don’t understand.” But ultimately, she doesn’t worry much about looking in the rearview mirror.

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“I don’t think I have anything to clarify,” she continued. “The people I love and want in my life will be there forever. The people I don’t know can get rid of themselves.’

Despite two rather tumultuous reality TV relationships, Vestal was also broken up by Jimmy Presnell in favor of Chelsea Blackwell in the Love is blind pods – she doesn’t let a few disappointments affect her optimistic view of love.

“I don’t feel bitter or sour at all,” Vestal said. “I feel better than ever. I know who I am, I love who I am and I know how much I have to offer. I know I’m going to get it. I’m going to have it all.”

Vestal also raved about the relationship she has with her 10-year-old daughter Autumn who, according to Vestal, has been a willing participant in her mother’s recent journey.

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“Autumn loves it! Vestal said. “She is my biggest supporter, my biggest fan. Most of all, she is proud of me. And that’s really all that matters.”

Ultimately, Vestal may still be looking for a partner, but it’s the mother-daughter bond she shares with Autumn that she cherishes most.

“There’s nothing more rewarding than that,” Vestal said. “It’s what I’m most proud of. It is my greatest achievement in life. There is nothing like being able to be the mother that I am to my daughter.”